I met this woman through a mutual friend! We had this attraction that was just unexplainable. After the third day of knowing her she gave me her address after I asked for it and we had sex for almost 2 hours. Probably the best and hottest sex of my life. We continued to see each other every evening for the next 2 weeks. The ************SPAM/BANNEAR************ reason we did not continue this is because her husband came back from deployment. Yes, he was deployed. We did not just have sex, but rather spent time getting to know one another and in the mean time fell for each other. We ended up saying "I love you". The feelings we had grew strong and stronger and even continued to grow after her husband came home, even though we couldn't see each other. We had a connection that was stronger than anything either of us have felt before... and not just sexual. After all the talking and even the day's I took off work to spend the whole day with her, we realized how perfect we would be together. The problem is obvious though, we are both married (unhappy with our current relationships obviously or this most likely wouldn't have occurred) and both of us have a baby. Her husband is a controlling freak who constantly puts her down and makes her feel like ****, he can't let go of her past which included sex and drugs, again making her feel horrible about something she did before they met and can't currently control. He's young and immature and doesn't deserve a girl like her! She changed the person she was to fit his needs and after being with me, realized this and changed back to the who she was before they met. Now, all this being said he has been back from deployment for a little over 3 weeks but has spent all that time with family and has not been alone with her and his son since he has been back. They have not returned back to their normal routine. She say's things are going good (for now) but I believe it is ************SPAM/BANNEAR************ because it's fresh and new now that he is back and once they get back to their routine and are alone, he will go back to being the dick he was before. People don't change! (experience). We both decided we would work on our marriages and see how they went first. Mine is not going as well as hers, plain and simple, It's ****. No love, no connection... anyways, all I have been able to do is think about this woman who I can't txt or call because her husband controls her every move and she can't ever get away or do anything without him barging in (no trust). How do I know there is no trust, by how controlling of her he is, it's ridiculous. By the way, this is the first time her or I have ever done anything like this... it's not normal and we both never ever thought it would happen. So all I can do is think about her and how much I want to be with her and take care of her and treat her the way she deserves to be treated as well as taking care of her child of which I have no problem doing, and would enjoy it. Now, any advice on what I should do? To sum it up... I'm married and in love with another man's wife, she feels the same about me as I do her although she is currently not acting on her feelings where as I am having an extremely difficult time not doing. I want him to know that she cheated so he knows who he is married to, but without anyone finding out was me, and without her finding out that I spilled the beans. With him finding this out they would definitely not be together anymore therefore making her available to be with me. I'm a horrible person I guess because I have no issues with divorcing my wife. We've been married for over 3 years but there is no love in our marriage anymore, it's like two strangers living in a house raising a kid together. Any suggestions?
I cheated on my wife with another mans wife what do I do?
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Dear forero / virgoodes
I am living a similar situation.
I have a love relation with a married girl since 17 months. I am married too and we both have 2 beautiful princesses (A princess each one)
To be honest I really love her and she love me as well, we have discovered a lot of things together, we have visited many places in Costa Rica. We go to the motel twice per week around 3 of 4 hours and we can see us everyday. We have discovered the best sex together. We know that we want to be together forever but it is not the correct time due to some key reasons but we are working on that.
If our feelings and light of sight are different I must be honest with her and I leave the relation but in our case we are working to be together. I do not want to detail the details of my relation, I just want to share some information to express you that there are many people in similar situations.
I can not deny that the mission of a married man is to make happy his family but now that both are separated (and she is working to get a better marriage) you must respect her decision. And you should organize your own life and your marriage and decide if you really want keep the relation with your wife or not, but this decision must be based on your experience with your wife and not based on your experience with the girl. (to avoid the partiality)
Another recommendation is to talk with the girl, to know what she really feeling, remember that some people can be unfaithful just to revenge a situation with the husband or the people can be unfaithful just to feel all the exciting feelings (like a drug) and there are many other reasons and your job is to ask to her the real reason of her unfaithful and make the same question yourself.
In addition you must carry out a SWOT analysis about you marriage and try to improve it. There are a lot of marriage experts ready to help you.
The girl is doing the best, trying to improve her marriage and thus determinate if the things in the marriage can be improved or leave the relation in the best way possible. (You need to do the same thing)
Do not forget to talk with the girl when you need a hand to continue and keep the contact with her, because together can discover the best for both.
I wish the best for you.
Have a nice day ahead.
Best regards
Estimado forero / virgoodes
Estoy viviendo una situación similar.
Tengo una relación de amor con una chica casada desde hace 17 meses. Estoy casado también y ambos tenemos dos bellas princesas (una princesa cada uno)
Para ser honesto, realmente la amo y ella me ama también, hemos descubierto un montón de cosas juntos, hemos visitado muchos lugares de Costa Rica. Nos vamos al motel dos veces por semana alrededor del 3 de 4 horas y podemos vernos todos los días. Hemos descubierto el mejor sexo juntos. Sabemos que queremos estar juntos para siempre, pero no es el momento adecuado debido a algunas razones fundamentales, pero estamos trabajando en eso.
Si nuestros sentimientos y la luz de la vista son diferentes, debo ser honesto con ella y dejar la relación, pero en nuestro caso estamos trabajando para estar juntos. No quiero detallar los detalles de mi relación, yo sólo quiero compartir algo de información para expresar que hay mucha gente en situaciones similares.
No puedo negar que la misión de un hombre casado es hacer feliz a su familia, pero ahora que ambos están separados (y ella está trabajando para conseguir un mejor matrimonio) debe respetar su decisión. Y usted debe organizar su propia vida y su matrimonio y decidir si realmente quieren mantener la relación con tu esposa o no, pero esta decisión debe basarse en su experiencia con su esposa y no se basa en su experiencia con la chica. (Para evitar la parcialidad)
Otra recomendación es hablar con la chica, para saber lo que realmente siente, recuerda que algunas personas puede ser infiel sólo para vengarse de una situación con el marido o la gente puede ser infiel sólo para sentir todas las sensaciones excitantes (como una droga) y hay muchas otras razones, y su trabajo es preguntar a ella la verdadera razón de su infidelidad y hacer la misma pregunta a ti mismo.
Además, debe llevar a cabo un análisis FODA sobre su matrimonio y tratar de mejorarlo. Hay un montón de expertos en el matrimonio dispuesto a ayudarle.
La chica está haciendo lo mejor, tratando de mejorar su matrimonio y por lo tanto determinar si las cosas en el matrimonio se puede mejorar o salir de la relación de la mejor manera posible. (Usted tiene que hacer la misma cosa)
No te olvides de hablar con la chica cuando se necesita una mano para continuar y mantener el contacto con ella, porque juntos pueden descubrir lo mejor para ambos.
Le deseo lo mejor para usted.
Tenga un buen día por delante.
Saludos cordiales
Puse la version en español al final.
Dear forero / virgoodes
I am living a similar situation.
I have a love relation with a married girl since 17 months. I am married too and we both have 2 beautiful princesses (A princess each one)
To be honest I really love her and she love me as well, we have discovered a lot of things together, we have visited many places in Costa Rica. We go to the motel twice per week around 3 of 4 hours and we can see us everyday. We have discovered the best sex together. We know that we want to be together forever but it is not the correct time due to some key reasons but we are working on that.
If our feelings and light of sight are different I must be honest with her and I leave the relation but in our case we are working to be together. I do not want to detail the details of my relation, I just want to share some information to express you that there are many people in similar situations.
I can not deny that the mission of a married man is to make happy his family but now that both are separated (and she is working to get a better marriage) you must respect her decision. And you should organize your own life and your marriage and decide if you really want keep the relation with your wife or not, but this decision must be based on your experience with your wife and not based on your experience with the girl. (to avoid the partiality)
Another recommendation is to talk with the girl, to know what she really feeling, remember that some people can be unfaithful just to revenge a situation with the husband or the people can be unfaithful just to feel all the exciting feelings (like a drug) and there are many other reasons and your job is to ask to her the real reason of her unfaithful and make the same question yourself.
In addition you must carry out a SWOT analysis about you marriage and try to improve it. There are a lot of marriage experts ready to help you.
The girl is doing the best, trying to improve her marriage and thus determinate if the things in the marriage can be improved or leave the relation in the best way possible. (You need to do the same thing)
Do not forget to talk with the girl when you need a hand to continue and keep the contact with her, because together can discover the best for both.
I wish the best for you.
Have a nice day ahead.
Best regards
Estimado forero / virgoodes
Estoy viviendo una situación similar.
Tengo una relación de amor con una chica casada desde hace 17 meses. Estoy casado también y ambos tenemos dos bellas princesas (una princesa cada uno)
Para ser honesto, realmente la amo y ella me ama también, hemos descubierto un montón de cosas juntos, hemos visitado muchos lugares de Costa Rica. Nos vamos al motel dos veces por semana alrededor del 3 de 4 horas y podemos vernos todos los días. Hemos descubierto el mejor sexo juntos. Sabemos que queremos estar juntos para siempre, pero no es el momento adecuado debido a algunas razones fundamentales, pero estamos trabajando en eso.
Si nuestros sentimientos y la luz de la vista son diferentes, debo ser honesto con ella y dejar la relación, pero en nuestro caso estamos trabajando para estar juntos. No quiero detallar los detalles de mi relación, yo sólo quiero compartir algo de información para expresar que hay mucha gente en situaciones similares.
No puedo negar que la misión de un hombre casado es hacer feliz a su familia, pero ahora que ambos están separados (y ella está trabajando para conseguir un mejor matrimonio) debe respetar su decisión. Y usted debe organizar su propia vida y su matrimonio y decidir si realmente quieren mantener la relación con tu esposa o no, pero esta decisión debe basarse en su experiencia con su esposa y no se basa en su experiencia con la chica. (Para evitar la parcialidad)
Otra recomendación es hablar con la chica, para saber lo que realmente siente, recuerda que algunas personas puede ser infiel sólo para vengarse de una situación con el marido o la gente puede ser infiel sólo para sentir todas las sensaciones excitantes (como una droga) y hay muchas otras razones, y su trabajo es preguntar a ella la verdadera razón de su infidelidad y hacer la misma pregunta a ti mismo.
Además, debe llevar a cabo un análisis FODA sobre su matrimonio y tratar de mejorarlo. Hay un montón de expertos en el matrimonio dispuesto a ayudarle.
La chica está haciendo lo mejor, tratando de mejorar su matrimonio y por lo tanto determinar si las cosas en el matrimonio se puede mejorar o salir de la relación de la mejor manera posible. (Usted tiene que hacer la misma cosa)
No te olvides de hablar con la chica cuando se necesita una mano para continuar y mantener el contacto con ella, porque juntos pueden descubrir lo mejor para ambos.
Le deseo lo mejor para usted.
Tenga un buen día por delante.
Saludos cordiales
Feanor
Miami FL
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cierren esto!
no se ke se trae este tipejo TARADO ke escribe su estupidez en ingles y los mas 'taradosh' jugando de sabetodo le responden como si 'jueran' bilingues(es mas ke sabe pilatosh de inglis?
dekadencia total...esta bien meter unas palabrillas de vez en kuando en inglis pero ya too un texto...WTF!
no se ke se trae este tipejo TARADO ke escribe su estupidez en ingles y los mas 'taradosh' jugando de sabetodo le responden como si 'jueran' bilingues(es mas ke sabe pilatosh de inglis?
dekadencia total...esta bien meter unas palabrillas de vez en kuando en inglis pero ya too un texto...WTF!
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